How to lift the fear of sexual intercourse for the first time
women-men-children healthcare
2010-1-9 6:52:29
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doctors,
My husband had been married more than a month, since I have the problem of psychological cowardice, has been finished can not intercourse. I went to hospital for Cervical, physical aspect is no problem is purely psychological problems. My fear is very strong, I really do not know how to lift the psychological shadow, do what is feasible. Seeing the present and the husband's feelings a bit smeared, I am worried, but the thought of the matter himself powerless. I tried many times to relax, but at the crucial moment himself retreating back. I would like to how to do it?
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way to eliminate the newlywed wife of sexual phobia
????Newlyweds, couples to the first time wandering, hazy sexuality into a living reality, most of them flies quite satisfied. However, some brides are in sex, have a kind of invisible fear, and even then the touch of her husband, actually scared screaming or fainting in the past, that is, won "sex-phobia."
????Well, the reasons for this phenomenon led to what is it? According to research of psychologists, mainly caused by a lack of knowledge of. For example, some couples in the girl complained that whenever they are looking forward to a bright future, the total existence of a nameless fear, worried about the marriage that sexual intercourse may be painful, pants will be bloody ... ... where every thought, they would not dare to would like to continue, even to simply not married. This added to the psychological burden and the formation of the initial fears. There are also some effects of the bride by the feudal ideology that men and sleep is a low-level dirty, dirty, sexual intercourse, pregnancy is the pleasure of men, women suffer and so on. Women in the marriage, anxiety, fear has been full of coming back inside until after marriage, sexual intercourse, anxiety, fear, emotion and absurd ideas will remember with affection, and therefore been enhanced.
????There are people with chronic diseases, but the sexual instincts still exist, the needs of sexual desire, there is often distracted to contain himself. Due to lack of necessary knowledge, does not quite understand the sexual life of the Italian study whether the impact of chronic diseases, thus the process of sexual intercourse for fear beverages, it would also have psychological fears.
????The elimination of female fear following two methods:
????(1) to acquire knowledge law: the fear of many women is the lack of knowledge lead to the. As some scholars put it: "stupid and disturbed fear, knowledge, and to protect refuses to fear." Therefore, to husband and wife together to read books about sexual knowledge, understanding women's sexual psychology and sexual reflected in other relevant physical and psychological knowledge.
???(2) The transfer of attention to law: his attention from the object to other aspects of fear to go, this is an effective way to eliminate sexual fear. When the first sexual intercourse, such as timidity and apprehension because of the woman, men should pay special attention to the woman, and thoughtful, plus patience, caress, and talk to her, step by step to stimulate the woman's sexual desire, when the woman could not suppress sexual impulses, when, and then the gradual completion of integration mind also that fear does not exist naturally.
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first sexual meaning of life for most people is a crucial step in life. Although the Western sexual liberation means sexual life and marriage and parenthood does not matter, but the first one-time life for anyone is still very important. Although the sexual life and sex hormone related, that many of us, especially in the adolescent who will be driven by sex hormones have sex, but the reason why most of us have sex because of emotional significance.
??First sexual maturity of life are generally regarded as a sign of the transition from girl to woman steps, life milestone. It can mark your peers in the position, which may be your parents, a way of revenge, or is the faithful companion of a reward. In fact, we continue to lose their virginity is a close relationship with the partner approach. It is a sign of love, the highest realm.
??Many women said that because of the spirit Shizhen disappointed; sex life is more urgent than love; they do not have the feeling of adult females, there sense of guilt. However, most women can continue to have pleasant relations between the sexes - to build a happy sex life is the key partners of mutual trust to reach a consensus.
??[Practical responses]
??● Make sure your partner about your life in the face of first sexual feelings; if possible in advance with him to talk about your concerns.
??● make appropriate arrangements for their own, including the private place and adequate time.
??● contraception is to ensure that your first sexual life is not a good way to trouble.
??● If you have never used tampons, your vagina will be tighter. May be without prior insert a finger, then only the second, third only to the under pressure to expand the vaginal opening.
??● Choose an easy to insert his position. Separate the legs, buttocks, if possible devolution of a pillow.
??● can be coated in saliva on his penis, or ky gel.
??● holding his penis, put right location and have it inserted; this will help you feel to take the initiative and control the rhythm.
??● the time of entry, a little light push him down so that your vaginal muscles tighten.
??● The first reach orgasm - this is just an exercise.
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if it is convenient, plus I'll chat with you my bar ...
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the fear of sex is usually not to regard a correct understanding of sex, or have had traumatic experience.
If this is the first case, you can read interesting books on sex education, "most young people want to know the nature of knowledge" is a good book, there are illustrations, and strongly recommended. And sex, like to eat as normal, you can enjoy a better sex!
If it is the second, you need to find one suited to their psychological consultants and do a regular counseling.
Bless you!
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If a house to live on if you and your husband does not deliberately set out to do in the bedroom to create a warm and romantic environment in advance not to think about sexual things touched by love, then kiss to gradually began to feel it was finally unable to do so can sublimate your feelings
doctors,
My husband had been married more than a month, since I have the problem of psychological cowardice, has been finished can not intercourse. I went to hospital for Cervical, physical aspect is no problem is purely psychological problems. My fear is very strong, I really do not know how to lift the psychological shadow, do what is feasible. Seeing the present and the husband's feelings a bit smeared, I am worried, but the thought of the matter himself powerless. I tried many times to relax, but at the crucial moment himself retreating back. I would like to how to do it?
# -0 - #
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way to eliminate the newlywed wife of sexual phobia
????Newlyweds, couples to the first time wandering, hazy sexuality into a living reality, most of them flies quite satisfied. However, some brides are in sex, have a kind of invisible fear, and even then the touch of her husband, actually scared screaming or fainting in the past, that is, won "sex-phobia."
????Well, the reasons for this phenomenon led to what is it? According to research of psychologists, mainly caused by a lack of knowledge of. For example, some couples in the girl complained that whenever they are looking forward to a bright future, the total existence of a nameless fear, worried about the marriage that sexual intercourse may be painful, pants will be bloody ... ... where every thought, they would not dare to would like to continue, even to simply not married. This added to the psychological burden and the formation of the initial fears. There are also some effects of the bride by the feudal ideology that men and sleep is a low-level dirty, dirty, sexual intercourse, pregnancy is the pleasure of men, women suffer and so on. Women in the marriage, anxiety, fear has been full of coming back inside until after marriage, sexual intercourse, anxiety, fear, emotion and absurd ideas will remember with affection, and therefore been enhanced.
????There are people with chronic diseases, but the sexual instincts still exist, the needs of sexual desire, there is often distracted to contain himself. Due to lack of necessary knowledge, does not quite understand the sexual life of the Italian study whether the impact of chronic diseases, thus the process of sexual intercourse for fear beverages, it would also have psychological fears.
????The elimination of female fear following two methods:
????(1) to acquire knowledge law: the fear of many women is the lack of knowledge lead to the. As some scholars put it: "stupid and disturbed fear, knowledge, and to protect refuses to fear." Therefore, to husband and wife together to read books about sexual knowledge, understanding women's sexual psychology and sexual reflected in other relevant physical and psychological knowledge.
???(2) The transfer of attention to law: his attention from the object to other aspects of fear to go, this is an effective way to eliminate sexual fear. When the first sexual intercourse, such as timidity and apprehension because of the woman, men should pay special attention to the woman, and thoughtful, plus patience, caress, and talk to her, step by step to stimulate the woman's sexual desire, when the woman could not suppress sexual impulses, when, and then the gradual completion of integration mind also that fear does not exist naturally.
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first sexual meaning of life for most people is a crucial step in life. Although the Western sexual liberation means sexual life and marriage and parenthood does not matter, but the first one-time life for anyone is still very important. Although the sexual life and sex hormone related, that many of us, especially in the adolescent who will be driven by sex hormones have sex, but the reason why most of us have sex because of emotional significance.
??First sexual maturity of life are generally regarded as a sign of the transition from girl to woman steps, life milestone. It can mark your peers in the position, which may be your parents, a way of revenge, or is the faithful companion of a reward. In fact, we continue to lose their virginity is a close relationship with the partner approach. It is a sign of love, the highest realm.
??Many women said that because of the spirit Shizhen disappointed; sex life is more urgent than love; they do not have the feeling of adult females, there sense of guilt. However, most women can continue to have pleasant relations between the sexes - to build a happy sex life is the key partners of mutual trust to reach a consensus.
??[Practical responses]
??● Make sure your partner about your life in the face of first sexual feelings; if possible in advance with him to talk about your concerns.
??● make appropriate arrangements for their own, including the private place and adequate time.
??● contraception is to ensure that your first sexual life is not a good way to trouble.
??● If you have never used tampons, your vagina will be tighter. May be without prior insert a finger, then only the second, third only to the under pressure to expand the vaginal opening.
??● Choose an easy to insert his position. Separate the legs, buttocks, if possible devolution of a pillow.
??● can be coated in saliva on his penis, or ky gel.
??● holding his penis, put right location and have it inserted; this will help you feel to take the initiative and control the rhythm.
??● the time of entry, a little light push him down so that your vaginal muscles tighten.
??● The first reach orgasm - this is just an exercise.
# -0 - #
=============== ===========if it is convenient, plus I'll chat with you my bar ...
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the fear of sex is usually not to regard a correct understanding of sex, or have had traumatic experience.
If this is the first case, you can read interesting books on sex education, "most young people want to know the nature of knowledge" is a good book, there are illustrations, and strongly recommended. And sex, like to eat as normal, you can enjoy a better sex!
If it is the second, you need to find one suited to their psychological consultants and do a regular counseling.
Bless you!
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If a house to live on if you and your husband does not deliberately set out to do in the bedroom to create a warm and romantic environment in advance not to think about sexual things touched by love, then kiss to gradually began to feel it was finally unable to do so can sublimate your feelings
